Thursday, December 5, 2013

disrespectful society

Good Morning Lovelies;

I guess I'm not done talking about Mr Paul Walker.. because he is the main reason for today's post. If you are a friend of mine on facebook then you have already seen my rant. Because I am so grossed out and I'm so appalled ~ I have to get this off my chest.

I was grossed out when pictures surfaced about the car that they were driving. I was shocked and grossed out when a security camera released it's graphic findings of the crash. I screamed, was shocked, and had nightmares on the VERY graphic post mortem picture of Paul Walker that emerged on facebook. What the f*ck is wrong with our society?? Did the jokes about Elvis being alive really make everyone want proof that someone famous died???! What about the families?! Do you think Mr Walkers Dad wants to see these or how about his fifteen year old daughter?? Thinks she wants to view a graphic video of her Dad dying or want it discussed?? There is also a video of the Rodas son trying to save them out of the burning vehicle.. WHY WOULD YOU SHARE THAT?! WHY!!
I refuse to watch such video's .. it's disrespectful. If you are the owner or maunfactures of the vehicle then I can understand but our society has NO BUISNESS viewing these.. NONE.

We have allowed our curiosity for how the famous live to ruin their lives. They are bombarded with paparazzi 24/7. They ambush them and take away their privacy so we can have pictures in gossip magazines. Then the actors/actresses are sued when they have had enough and take action ~ like Mr Baldwin. He lost a spot as a late night host because he shoved a paparazzi out of his way.. HE GOT SUED and LOST a gig because of it.. but that just generated more of a buzz. Seriously.

People want to complain because local people aren't shared on the news because of a famous person. Why do you think that is? Would you be glued to the TV if you heard that a bus turned over killing four everyday people?? Because that actually happened the night Paul Walker passed away.. but have we heard anything about that? That's our society's fault. Yes, that's our fault. In my personal opinion anything that happens on a stage or in a video is free game.. but crossing that line of professional and personal is too much for me.

The more and more things that surface on Mr Walker makes me cringe. It makes me sad and upset for his family. It makes me upset that we allow this is to happen. I'm not sure how we stop it other then not viewing or purchasing the gossip magazines. I just want you all to stop and ask yourself .. if YOU or your husband had been in the car with Mr Walker.. would you want YOUR daughter, Mother, Father, Son to every see the exact moment and footage of when you passed?? Would you want to be surrounded by camera's and people yelling questions at you as you left the grocery store, mall, going to the airport??

Yea these people make a lot of money. The memorize lines and take six months or longer to create a movie that we pay to go see. Then we purchase the DVD's of our favorties. We watch TV sitcoms in the evening .. those people have to memorize lines and be on the set for weeks to get a show right. Then we complain because they own big houses far from the public and drive around the dark tinted windows surrouned by security. We read how some actresses or actors have changed their appearance just to be able to go to a Starbucks without being noticed. Yea that's a life I'd love to live..  NOT.

My point is I'm so angry that we allow this to be normal. I'm so angry that the graphic graphic post mortem picture surfaced. I seriously screamed and had nightmares last night. Please do look for the photo either.. you'll instantly regret it. But I know that by talking about it you guys are curious.. trust me; you don't want to see it. My heart goes out to the children of these families.. to the 8 yr old who will forever be plagued with the fact that he couldn't save his Dad. The therapy and mental trauma that he will endure. For Mr Walkers daughter ~ no daughter wants to see her Dad die. No girl wants to see how it happened ~ close or not she shouldn't have to keep reliving it through News or Social Media. This girl will never have her Dad at graduation, help her pick out a college, or car. He'll never meet her boyfriends or her future husband. He'll never walk her down the isle, help her buy her first house, see her first child.. that is what we should be mourning. The loss of a Father not some guy who played a role in a series of movies.

I gotta stop talking about this.. I'm so angry and disgusted. The lack of disrespect we have for our neighbors and fellow humans is appalling ~ it's not just about the rich and famous. We disrepect everyone for the color of their skin, how they live their lives.. when did we become the judges?? HUH? I dare each and every one of you to be kind to ten strangers a day for a week. Without judgment or hesitation...  dare you. We can't do it.. because that's what we have been taught to do.

Mark 12:31 "And the second is this 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself' there is no other commandment greater then these".

Matthew 18:21-22 "And Peter came to him and said 'Lord, how often should my brother sin against me and I forgive him? Up to seven times?" and Jesus said to him 'I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven".

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